10 Simple Ways to Improve Your Self-Belief
Do you feel like you’ll never be good enough at anything?
If you improve your self-belief, it can completely transform your life, making you more confident and better equipped to tackle challenges.
Self-belief affects everything
Everybody struggles sometimes to believe in their abilities. For me personally, not so many years ago my level of self-belief was at rock bottom.
I had one friend and no social life. And a dead end job with no prospects (which I understood when I took the job). I’d always wanted to work for myself, but I KNEW it would never happen. I just wasn’t meant to be successful.
I was stuck in my ways, never asserted myself and never, ever went outside of my structured comfort zone!
But, I never saw it as a problem with my self belief. I just reasoned was that if I wasn’t doing it already, I didn’t need to do it. When in reality, I didn’t do it because I didn’t think I could.
I still have days, even now, when I know I might fail, or won’t be the best I can be, but that’s OK. I’ve learnt that failing is a good thing and not being the best at things is OK too.
Because, it’s only by failing that we can grow and do better next time. It’s only by failing that we seek improvement and it’s only by failing a lot that we can truly be the best we can be.
Failure is a strong word. But, what it really means is not being perfect. Not always being right. Not having everyone accept what you’re saying without question and not having the answers to every question.
You need to fail to see where your weaknesses are, it’s the only way to truly learn how to be better, and it’s an important part in achieving your dreams.
How to improve your self-belief
If you make a mistake, use the feedback it gives you to fix the problem, learn from the mistake and you’ve grown some more.
Achieving greater self-belief is all about growing as an individual and the best way to grow is to just go and try, learn from any mistakes and then try the newer, better version. See every mistake as an opportunity to learn and grow, then get back to trying!
Some ideas that will help you to grow and increase your level of self belief are;
- To improve your self-belief, start by setting small, achievable goals. Accomplishing these will provide tangible evidence that you are capable, boosting your confidence incrementally.
- Step slightly outside of your comfort zone every day, push past your initial discomfort and see it as an opportunity to grow.
- Accept that not every one will like you. You can’t please everybody, so why not concentrate on pleasing yourself?
- Don’t listen to the negative self-talk that normally holds you back.
- Positive self-talk plays a crucial role; replace negative thoughts with affirmations that reinforce your worth and abilities.
- Try going into situations even when you’re not sure of the result and learn to be OK with that.
- Reflecting on past achievements, can remind you of your strengths and capabilities, further improving your self-belief.
- Surround yourself with supportive people who believe in you and will encourage you to push beyond your limits
- Don’t shy away from failure; instead, view it as a learning opportunity. You can definitely be OK in failure.
- Regularly engaging in activities you enjoy can provide a sense of fulfillment and boost your overall morale.
Final thoughts
If you use these strategies on an ongoing basis, you’ll soon come to realize you’re much more capable than you thought you were.
Always remember that you’re stronger, more capable and more tolerant of initial discomfort than you think. And you won’t really know if you can do a thing, until you try.
Success at anything starts with small steps. You should be really proud of all your small achievements.
Be patient with yourself. Improving your self-belief is a continuous journey, and every small step forward is a victory in itself.
So, go out there and try, learn from your mistakes, then try again! Before you know it, your beliefs about yourself will improve dramatically 🙂
Have you found any other ways to improve your self-belief? Why not share some of your small wins in the comments?
